As a single man or woman, when relating with others you need to treat people the way you would like to be treated.

According to relationship expert Marie Dubuque, in order to avoid attracting the wrong people in your life, there are three things to look out for.

1. They constantly talk about themselves

It’s all about them “me,me,me”. Dubuque says once you notice this trait, there’s really no need pushing the relationship any further.

2. They’ll call you at the last minute
“This shows complete disrespect for you and disregard for your plans”, she says. If a person is really interested in you, they’ll be making plans with you ahead of time and make sure you are available.

3. They cancel your plans
“You really shouldn’t settle for someone who cancels plans with you last minute when they realise that something better came up”, the relationship coach says.

All that matters is spotting these people without starting a relationship with them.