When a lady is living in self-deceit, she will say ‘I want a man who will accept me just the way I am. Any man who’s telling me to change is just selfish’, bla bla bla. The first man left you, the second man left you, the third left, etc. and you are still saying “a man must accept me the way I am”? Smiles!

Of course, there are some men who will accept you just the way you are. They will tell you…
‘Baby I love you just the way you are, you’re my kind of lady, very $exY’. But when they start sleeping with you, it will become see-finish and they will remove the Y and you will be become just $ex. After they must have had enough of you, they will also remove the S and you will become just an EX.

Be wise, a good lady doesn’t insist a man must accept her the way she is; she strives to be a better person.