Love is a beautiful thing. But when you fall in love with the wrong person, that love can turn to hate in no time. Love also has a way of blinding us to the qualities that can make or break a relationship in the future.

For example, how does one know that their partner would turn out to be selfish? We found 9 signs that can help you.

1. He/she is always bored when you are talking

Noticed how your partner never asks about your day? Instead, it is what happened in their day that is always the main topic. When you do get the chance to talk, He/she always looks bored. Selfishness is in their blood. Run while you still can.

2. Your emotions do not matter

All those fights you guys had, notice how your partner quickly apologizes? This is because they can’t deal with your feelings. They always want to make their own feelings your priority.

3. Spending time with you na WAEC

Do not get this wrong, your partner is free to spend time with his friends. But when he’d rather hang with his boys than spend quality time with you, can’t you see selfish is his other name?

4. You live your life under their timetable

Everything in your relationship is dictated by them. Which restaurant you visit, what film to see at the cinema, how you style your hair etc. the earlier you realize you are dating a control freak, the better.

5. Nothing goes for nothing

If on the off chance you get a gift from your partner, it is because he/she knows they are more likely to get back in your good books or receive [email protected]:’ as a result.

6. You are never satisfied after [email protected]:’

Se with Mr or Mrs selfish always feels incomplete for you because you spent your time paying attention to the other person’s needs. Once they are sated, [email protected]:’ is over.