Being a good partner is not all about being well behaved or cooking well at the kitchen; the affairs in the ‘Other Room’ also counts as explained here.

• Make the first move. Men love it when women make the first move. So, initiate s*x and take control. Take your time and set your own s*xual pace to increase your own pleasure.

• Dress to impress. Experiment with dressing up to boost your s*xual arousal. If a man in uniform turns you on, download your partner to dress up. Why not meet your lover at the door dressed in a tight skirt and blouse with stockings and killer heels to download his attention?

• Use toys. Regular s*x toy use has been shown to increase $exual experience and satisfaction, rather than be a threat to a relationship and can lead to more satisfying orgasms. Many men love to watch their partner use a s*x toy on themselves.

• Love lubricants. Using lubricant during s*x can greatly increase both your s*xual pleasure and that of your man and make s*x last longer too.

• Stop worrying about your body. Men are attracted to the whole package; so, become more confident with your body. Loving the way you look will make you irresistible to your partner.

• Change position. Being on top is extremely pleasurable for many women and will excite your partner too. Using a vibrating cock ring will stimulate both of you; or try a small bullet vibrator against your clitoris to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.

• Change it up. Make s*x more fun by having it in other places, either inside or outside. Have a steamy shower, soaping each other with perfumed soaps or oils. Try having $ex in the morning to keep you smiling all day or arrange to meet for lunch to have one.

• Read erotic fiction. Reading a few chapters from a short steamy erotic story will coax the first sparks of s*xual desire in you and give you some ideas for your own s*x life too.

• Tie me up. Blindfolding your man or being tied up and blindfolded yourself, using only your sense of smell, touch, taste and hearing can be intensely $exually arousing.

• Talk to each other. Open up a conversation about what makes you tick and what turns you on $exually. You may be pleasantly surprised about what your partner fantasises about.